In time, you won't feel that about having sex w/someone else. Right now, you know that you are still married and are attempting to keep your commitment to your marriage. Give yourself the gift of time and not worry about what the future holds. Keep your focus on the present. Okay?
Ijust think your friend was "jumping the gun" a bit when he said what he did. Maybe he was hoping "fishing" to see how you would react. Maybe I'm reading what you posted about him wrong, but I just don't think a true friend would say something like that to someone who is going through what you are right now. Just my two cents.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
