Yes, perhaps I am masochistic. Or as my C once said years ago, I am not masochistic, but may have some masochistic tendencies.
But I come back because I care. Because I see you trying to figure things out and struggling. I care, CV. I really do even if I cannot get the point I intended across, I do care. To be honest, I know as well as anyone, that my point is not important. And you'll "get it" when and if you're ready. I am not a professional and I am fallible, so it may also be that my point is unimportant. I'm aware that it is just my opinion and it is my hope that wrong, right, or otherwise, it is taken in the context of trying to be helpful (v.s. just telling you what you want to hear) and it helps you think and clarify. If so, then I feel I have contributed at least to helping you in your journey. I cannot ask for more than that.
I think it's a fine idea to go through that as well, for what it's worth. And I think letting him drive the schedule will help you both out immensely. I do highly suggest that you both commit to going through something like this, open and honestly, for at least 6 weeks.
I wish you well.
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
