Thanks snodderly, I will not have him come visit. Is it weird that the thought of being "involved" with another man grosses me out? It's flattering, yes, but the thought of having sex with someone else makes my skin crawl! Will I always feel this way? I'm scared that I'll never be able to let go and move on and want another relationship.
M 41 H 43 M 22 S 18 S 14 D 11 Affair discovered 1/12 He filed 2/12 OW#2 7/12 she lives next door. D pending