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Why am I not surprised you did it?


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Snodderly! You're getting to know me!


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You are so predictable and that's why your h does what he does. Do a 180 and change the way you react to things.


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I hear ya.


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Heather, I am literally LOL You gotta laugh at this madness sometimes. laugh


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A friend pointed out that H and I relate to each other like teenagers. Seems like a lot of couples on here got together young. You kinda wonder if it plays a part in the MLC?

He responded to my "Bite me."

"Hard or soft."

Sweet ain't he?


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I agree, I was 18 he was 20 so maybe that is it...now he says I don't know anything about him (this guy I don't) but the real him nobody knows him better than me.

Sorry if I offend but I love you're H's reponse thats whats mine would have said LOL


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mmm... idk. Maybe, but I was 23 and H was 33.

Could be that so many marriages period begin when people are in their teens/early 20s?


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Just a fyi...you don't have to be married to have an mlc. My personal opinion is that the age people marry doesn't have anything to do w/an mlc. The mlcer may think it does, but it doesn't. Mlcers who marry early in life, think that they missed out on something, but what they missed out on was growing up a normal way in a stable environment. Their issues are hidden underneath everything else and as they transition through their 20's, 30's, 40's, etc., if they are unable to navigate their life changes, then the nasty mlc will occur.


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Man. I thought I had solved the mystery. I could be the girl who found the cure for a MLC. We need a pill. Or, maybe a sharp blow to the head.

I'm not offended! Are you kidding? Let's see... H has called me frigid, mentally ill, loony, etc... You think YOU are going to offend Me!?? Now, THAT's funny:)

Much Love to All us Mentally Ill Loonies Trying to Make Our Way through this Quagmire!

Heather


"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man

“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
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