Ok so in the spirit of giving. What is the consensus on the DB boards on giving gifts to their WAS' for Christmas?
Last year in my begging/pleading/pursuing days, I gave my W an upgraded wedding ring--only to find myself returning it 2 days later. I just don't want to make the same mistake.
But I know I can't just wake up Christmas morning without any gift to the mother of my children. We are still together afterall despite of possibility of cutting the rope in a month or two...
I used to buy multiple gifts, I'm thinking this year, I'm not going overboard and just get her something practical like a purse. Looks like what she's been using has been beaten up.
Thoughts?
Newman
Based upon what I think that I know of your situation, that you are still living in the same home as W, still communicating, and still, technically, trying to work through things, I would suggest getting a nice, NON-romantic, gift. Something on par with what you might get for a good friend.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
