Just a fyi...you don't have to be married to have an mlc. My personal opinion is that the age people marry doesn't have anything to do w/an mlc. The mlcer may think it does, but it doesn't. Mlcers who marry early in life, think that they missed out on something, but what they missed out on was growing up a normal way in a stable environment. Their issues are hidden underneath everything else and as they transition through their 20's, 30's, 40's, etc., if they are unable to navigate their life changes, then the nasty mlc will occur.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
