Ok so in the spirit of giving. What is the consensus on the DB boards on giving gifts to their WAS' for Christmas?

Last year in my begging/pleading/pursuing days, I gave my W an upgraded wedding ring--only to find myself returning it 2 days later. I just don't want to make the same mistake.

But I know I can't just wake up Christmas morning without any gift to the mother of my children. We are still together afterall despite of possibility of cutting the rope in a month or two...

I used to buy multiple gifts, I'm thinking this year, I'm not going overboard and just get her something practical like a purse. Looks like what she's been using has been beaten up.

Thoughts?

Newman

me40; W43
M18; T~20
D18; S13 & S3
bomb 5/9/11
EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM

Separated 4/1/14

"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.