mmm... idk. Maybe, but I was 23 and H was 33.

Could be that so many marriages period begin when people are in their teens/early 20s?

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.