She could have had PPD, and if so it's unfortunate that it wasn't picked up earlier. It's good that she made an appt with a therapist.

Did you read How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It? It's helpful with understanding how couples relate.

Mostly we want to be heard-with both ears and both eyes.

Practice active listening and I mean that, practice it with friends and co-workers so when you use it with W you won't feel like a dork.

Good luck, afa.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss