We all have a choice on when we discontinue the co-sleeping.

I posted about this several months ago, how sad it is that when the BD happens, we suddenly want both ourselves and our Ss to put the M first when we didn't put it first before.

Old behaviors are hard to change.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss