"I believe I said this before, but I think we spent too much time focusing on the kids and not enough on our M. About all we did as H and W is ML a couple of times a week. Other than those instances, we weren't H and W, we were mom and dad. Heck, S9 was still sleeping between us in bed until about 18 months ago."
We did the same things! Dr. Sears...&that co sleeping did not help us much at all!...My W would even address me as Papa! That's who I was! It just hit me...that is who she saw me as and I filled the role of Papa very well maybe too good...
