Currently, they are / have been arguing. So I'm not sure. I think he is pleading for another chance kind of a thing. Their whole R was based on her feeling alive again. Having a zest for a life. Then again, her weekends with OM involved her not having to tend to any of our adult responsibilities / real world stuff. Hell, if I could live free like a teenager, I would, yet I'm too responsible. Other things I know she received were WOA that seemingly meant more than mine. I honestly was offering compliments prior to bomb drop, yet they meant little to nothing. I was pursuing / wanting to spend QT with her. She denied. I'm not sure how much of depression has / is contributing to prebomb, bomb, and current.
On the bright side, she called me this morning in a panic, b/c she hadn't heard from me & bad stuff went down at work for her. Nothing horrible, just bad. I say the bright side becuase during her attempts to contact me (I was busy working), she had also sent me a text that she FINALLY called and left a message for IC. Yay!
So I'm stuck with how to get her to feel alive. How for her to truly accept my WOA (genuine ones of course), while maintaining not only my PMA, but my sanity too. Also, during the convo last night, she admitted she felt just like she was before, depressed - me doing too much (around the house type stuff). I asked how I can pull back / help her do for herself without being rude, but didn't get much of an answer.
Also, during the convo last night, she admitted she felt just like she was before, depressed - me doing too much (around the house type stuff). I asked how I can pull back / help her do for herself without being rude, but didn't get much of an answer.