The thing is, she probably would like to keep him as a friend because there's something she gets from that R. And that's useful for you to know, if/when you start piecing.

What is she getting from him, that she wasn't getting from you?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss