Spartan, it sounds like things are going great in your sitch, congrats!! You're seeing some amazingly positive things happening, I wish I saw half as much in my own sitch!
So true about friends & family not being on board with DB'ing. I got so sick of it that I quit talking to my family for quite a while. Then they started saying things like "I'm so worried about you, are you OK?" which irked me even more. I told them that I'm just fine, but need some "away" time. I have one friend that understands what I'm doing and went through the WAW syndrome himself. His W walked 2 years ago. They never got D'd and now they're starting to reconcile. He's been a great support to me and totally "gets it". But even if you can't find a single local person that gets it, you've got us
