I don't think any of her confusion is intentional to keep you hopping, I think she's really confused.
Don't be withdrawn, be happy. I know, difficult but she's getting some emotional strokes from OM, don't make him look a lot better than you.
Don't let her confuse you, choose your path and carry on. If you can only be in your marriage if she doesn't contact other man, then tell her that and stand by it.
Oh, and put no stock in Christmas magic. Disable the Lifetime channel from your TV.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
