The drama will end when you stop playing your part, which you are taking steps toward.
Be grateful that he hung up, as it might have ramped up from there. I have a problem when my H doesn't respond to emails-that problem is mine to deal with. When he doesn't respond to an email it really says nothing about me but I sometimes become the victim and want to rant and rave about how unfair it all is.
So I've then given him the power to affect how I feel about me.
Take your power back.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
