One thing I learned early on is he is responsible for his own relationship with his kids. When I would give him a heads up about them being upset about something he would say I was putting words in their mouths or that they were projecting my feelings. 4.5 years post divorce....nope, that is all on him not actually connecting with his kids.
I get along with my ex. Strangely enough like we are still together. However, we are not friends, we are parents.
Kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory