I have to say, CV, although I empathize deeply with your frustration, that KD really has a point. I do agree that you tend to shoot down the suggestions that AJ and KD are giving you.

But, at the end of the day - you're here. So that means, in some way, you are working on this M. Are you up to the challenge - can you put aside your frustration for one day, and then another, and then another - and make one small change that might bear fruit?

Or - it's entirely possible that you really are done and that nothing will bring about the change you need, but then the question is - is it really worth waiting/suffering for 6 more years?


Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page