We need to have a greater respect for how self focsed they are and the internal protection mechanisms that they have in play. And understand this is why all the stuff that we used to think should "logically" work, doesn't work.
I really do see how focused he is...it's what scares me into believing that this is truly his path, they way he is going to continue, because he is so intense and adamant.
I do respect that he has at least found something in himself to make him feel like he has a purpose. I don't understand it, how it doesn't involve the kids and I at all, except to financial take care of us (h said his L is measured by how much $$$ he makes).
I care for him enough to start letting him go. Believe me...I have let go alot...he has even commented on how I'm acting way beyond how any other wife would.
He hasn't met all of you great S of DB!!!!!
I just wish his way of going about life, and the purpose he was feeling was logical and in a healthy way.
So then there's me...I'm what's left behind...it's all about were do I go...what do I want! I want love...and all of the above!
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!
