Thanks turtlegirl. That may help quite a bit. I am currently looking for a therapist for my D, she has noticed enough that it is affecting her at school. My W and I had a meeting with her teacher yesterday, and was asked if there are any problems at home. My D is acting out, falling asleep in class, and day dreaming(none of which is normal for her). I was hoping that my D's teacher asking that question would wake my W up as to the damage she is causing. I don't think it phased her much though. I am doing all I can to help my D, and keep some sanity at home.
The roller coaster ride is very emotionally taxing, as you probably know. It's taking all the concentration and strength I have, but I know that I can make it through this. I just hope my mind is still in one piece when it's over.
Is it normal for an MLCer to say they love you then do a 180, and when you distance yourself they are upset that you are pushing them away?
How long does an average MLC last?
Do you have any recommendations of books or information on MLC's?
