" She'll just say, "I'm going to a happy hour." She doesn't divulge any further details"
Then that's what you should do.
^^^^ She does not get to cake eat here.
I disagree. The tit for tat is not a good way to go about this. Plus, you don't ask. Your W does. Now if you asked and she refused to answer, that would be different.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce