Do I Have a Chance?

[kat727]

The DB coach can give you ideas to try for your situation. They of course are pro marriage. I would say at least try one session. While he is away would be a perfect time.

I would continue to focus on you and the kids. I have often told people to treat their walk away spouse as you would the mailman, cordial but not too involved. He seems to be wanting you to be falling apart so that you will be giving him more attention. Don't give him the satisfaction. Don't try to appease him, or beg and plead with him. Frankly, I would be ticked. Use what he has been doing to you and your girls to keep yourself focused.

Kat