Lonely,

First of, congrats on your resurrected love. I read your sitch and thanks for sharing. It helps to know that there's hope.

Maybe when you get a chance, take a look at my sitch. I'm at the newcomers section. At this point in my sitch I feel like I should initiate the separation. I feel like my W feels stuck with me in the M.

She's the typical WAS and the scripts that goes with it. I remember your Ws list and one of them is divorce. Did your time apart helped? What about the OM? I strongly believe the sitch won't improve until OM leaves and EA fog lifts that's why I think I have to let my W go on her path.

I believe my W still in a heavy EA fog. She says she wants to feel the love for me like before but the feelings have not come back and she doesn't know how to get them back either.

Thanks again lonely.

Newman


me40; W43
M18; T~20
D18; S13 & S3
bomb 5/9/11
EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM

Separated 4/1/14

"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.