Do I Have a Chance?

[complicated]

I am interested to see what he is going to be like when he returns. Before he told me he was going he had been really nice and I thought we had made some pretty good progress.

Any advice?

I also text our counselor that I didn't feel like we were getting anywhere. I told her that I had been reading these and other books and I am very pro-marriage. I told her I didn't feel like we were setting goals, talking about how people do fall in and out of love during a marriage and it is a lot of hard work. I also didn't feel like she expressed that it is never one person. While I have openly admitted to both MC and H that I take responsibility for my part and I am working on myself, I believe we are both to blame. I told her that if she did not believe that every marriage can be saved and could effectively communicate that to and with us then I didn't think we would ever get anywhere.

The problem is I don't think I could ever get my H to change counselors again. I felt lucky to get him there after the last counselor he didn't like. I am still thinking about a DB coach but I have to deal with the MC too. I think he likes her for the most part.