Time for an Introduction...and Thanks

[figure-it-out]

Journaling.
Appointment with IC was good. I brought up the situation with my in-laws knowing about H's living situation and not saying anything to me about it. Not asking me how the kids are handling it, etc. Nothing to let me know that they know.

She thinks the root of it may be me realizing that I can't truly trust them and that's where the hurt comes from. That although I feel they are my "family" they are not behaving in a way a "family" should. I think that's true.

I'm annoyed that both MIL and SIL have no problem calling me to watch my nephew or my nephew's son, basically behaving as nothing has changed.

I've considered saying something but I don't know what I expect to get out of the conversation. MIL will more than likely say she didn't know "for sure" what was going on and as usual ignore what's right in front of her.
SIL will probably say she didn't want to "hurt" me by bringing it up and thought if I wanted to talk about it I would have.
Better to deal with it on my own I guess.

Switching gears, SHOCKER! H just sent a text and can't take S to practice again tonight. Practice isn't until 6pm, it's 2:30 now but he knows he will be stuck at work. Whatever...
I don't know why I even give him calendars of the kid's schedule or let him know when things change. He says he's going to be there but rarely is. Story of much of our lives right?