Portia, It's time to let him go and allow God to work on him. It is very evident from the conversation that he has no romantic interest in you, i.e., wants to remain friends. I think, for now, you need to go totally dark and just leave the man alone. If he should contact you, then you could respond when YOU feel like it.
Time to turn the focus back on to you. It's time that you start living your life to the fullest and if he should ever decide that he wants a serious relationship w/you, he will then have to prove himself worthy of your time and love, as well as earn your trust again. But until that time, do not put your life on hold...live it to the fullest.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
