She is still off the meds and working through the depression, it varies in intensity but she seems to be gaining ground. As is the work within.
Given the time of year with her historic SAD, holiday issues, etc, she is doing pretty good, almost getting to pre-mlc level. Since these have been long term things with her, I expect them this time of year....the difference is that I don't try to fix and get frustrated/angry with lack of success anymore (yea me!). I am there to support her, checking in if she doesn't approach me first, but leaving it up to her to figure out. Last year was a complete horror with the crazy angry spew and cheating replay, so I am not complaining at all. I will take the relative calmness of depression/withdrawal stages cycle...lol.
As I wrote in your thread, there is a slowly growing reconnection and interest in me and what I am doing, etc...slow, slow, but there. Small things such as saying good night again, calling when I wasn't home as soon as expected, more pleasant greetings when I come home, noticing my experiment in rogue-ish facial hair, etc.
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In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm