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Hi afa! its good to have you back! :-) Thank you of your kind words!

Tori- he had them over to hang out with him. A boy's night. One of the guys is the H of my BFF and she told me this morning that even her H was surprised to be invited over here by H. Supposedly when H called him to ask him if he wanted to hang out, H told him they could do it anywhere 'my place to your place'.

Does H think that this is his place still????

Which leads me to this gem.

Backstory- I mentioned that H had introduced OW to some of his extended family members that live in the UK. He had also introduced OW to the daughter of his cousin, who lives in Dubai. I know this girl ( she is in her twenty's...dad left her and her mom and sister when they were babies and her mom passed away a few years ago...so this girl is on her own and have some sympathy for her). She is young and dumb, but kind. However, she began treating me rudely when H spewed to everyone two years ago about how horrible I am and how unhappy he is.

Tonight-H tells me that another one of his cousins is getting engaged (he tells me in a way that I am expected to go to the engagement party).

Then he says, if X (daughter of his cousin that lives in dubai), flies in for the engagement, is it ok if she stays here in the guest bedroom?

WTF?

I actually didn't comment. I acted as if I barely heard the question (I was busy getting S ready for bed).

My immediate thought was absolutely not. Then I thought, why is he asking me? What does he think? Then I thought it would burn OW so much. Then I thought, but this girl would have to do some serious respecting of me if she came. Then I thought, what is she just going to use this place as a hotel while H takes her out and about and I am the chump once again? Then I thought, WTF. etc etc.

I can't seem to think logically about this yet. Need time. I am very confused. WTF is up with H?