Breakdown, thanking you for coming by and for your post. It was very clear and it has made me think. You are right, I am not going to continue following him on his elusive quest. So I need to decide for myself.

Thank you Breakdown. I really appreciate your post and thoughts.

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home