She said to me that she's still confused, and she said to whoever in my family she talked to that she still doesn't love me. Those are two big hurdles she needs to clear before we can have any kind of meaningful reconciliation discussion. And it may take months for her to jump those hurdles.
So I pray for patience because I sure don't have much
I believe recommitting to the marriage comes before "falling back in love" does. She has to decide to do this before the feelings of love will return. That whole "Love is a choice" thing...
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
