"I was checking my wife's email, as I regularly, do."
Why do you do this^^^^^^. Clearly you are not DBing. I can't comment on confronting your W but going to this guy's job is not a good idea.
"I'm sure it would show my wife that I do love her and would protect her."
I think acting mature and with dignity will show your W this^^^^ not going around making scenes.....
Look this is not easy and I'm sorry you are here but if you have read DB and follow it things might improve. I think we need to know more about you. Please post your story.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
