If he wasn't moving across the country I'd be more inclined to bring it up to W.
I guess for now I'll continue to sweep it under the rug. Not forever, but temporarily. Eventually it will come out. Either when I've had enough or if we reconcile. One way or another, it will be addressed.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done