SG I can see OM is weighing on your mind. Its up to you to tell her you saw the picture of him. Of course its going to get ugly she will deny any wrong doing. I can tell you if I found a pic like that I would have said something right then and there. IMO that is not something to sweep under the carpet but that's just me. Everyone has their opinion about what to do in that situation. How you handle it is up to you. What does your W say to you about OM? Keep in mind he may be pursuing her but the fact she had or has that pic of him is inappropriate and disrespectful to you. Remember if you confront her about it there will be consequences. I feel as married couple we have a right to know what is going on. If you do R the thoughts you have of OM could bother you it would me. I'm not telling you to say anything to her about it but if you feel that its something you need to do then you need to be prepared for the storm to follow. What do your instincts tell you?


M 44 W 43
S 23 S 15
INILWY 9/11
Divorce Mediation started 3/13
June 30 the day W is moving out