MLC, affair, internet pictures, we're a mess

[cantslowdown]

thank goodness I have more than 3 weeks. By the timetable she's alluded to, it'd proabbly be a year before she finally tried to move out and take the kids. I am just trying to get ahold of myself near term so I can calmly make changes in me. I think part of the problem with what happened in the counselor is because it is about the third or fourth she really "talked" to me about everything. We keep avoiding everything then it all builds up and we just fight. I have to accept that she sees things differently and interprets them differently and that it will change. I guess the good news is that if it keeps changing now while she's upset, then it could possibly finally change to a POV that makes her a little...less upset.