Put your hands up; it's a wild ride

[someguy1233]

W came home around midnight last night. This morning my communications with her were brief. I was again frustrated that she said she'd be home soon and ended up staying out all night. All I've ever asked for is an update.

This morning she said, "I'm sorry. Are we going to fight all day?"
I responded, "You did it again. All I ask is that you tell me what's going on."
She replied, "I know. I know you worry. You can text me any time to make sure I'm ok. Drunk W equals non-communicative. If I got a text from you I'd remember and think 'oh shoot!' This is also a really tough week for me with work." (she plans to quit her job on Friday.)

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Later on I asked if she had a fun night. She said yes. She was out with a few people from work, including possible OM.
I replied, "I thought he was moving across the country?"
She said, "Not until January. They're working on finding somewhere to live, and his W is trying to find a job. He's occasionally working out of my office until he moves."

Either she thinks I'm clueless about him, or she doesn't care. She had been wearing her rings all weekend. Yesterday, she took them off for work.
She was proud that she hadn't smoked at all last night. I know that possible-OM doesn't like smoking.
I noticed that she'd again dressed up for work yesterday.

I don't know what to do with this. Part of me thinks I should just wait to see what happens by January. The other part of me feels I deserve better than to go through this again.