Heather, "Quite some time" depends upon the person in crisis. I can't tell you how long he's going to be irrational and doing crazymaking things. Some a year or two and others...3 or more years and then some never recover. Again, it depends upon the individual and his/her crisis and how THEY handle it.
MLC is all about going back in time to an age where their emotions were stunted. Yes, he is acting like a teenager. Everyone of them who flips the switch go back to a time where they were hurt.
Keep the focus on YOU and your girls.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
