Heather, You are not getting it! It's MLC and MLC is irrational behavior and he's operating purel on emotional energy these days. You can't reason w/someone when they are highly emotional and he's going to be this way for quite some time. You can't make rational sense out of what he's doing, we all have talked about this on the board, i.e., MLC is crazymaking behavior and that's why you have to step way back and allow them to blow in the wind.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
