Yes the 24 hour rule is good for cooling down and getting your thoughts straight. It is also good to determine if the message is important or just an attempt to pull you into the drama.

But.

This is only needed when you are not detached.

Life long important decisions always take time to investigate and get a second or legal opinion.

When you hit that detachment level you will be confident in replying.

"I will be looking over all my options. I will update you later with my decision."



Basically were saying the same thing. Just with different words smile

Same outcome.

Detached ,confident and in control.


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