TJP,

I don't think many if any of us knew this would happen.

Your feelings are normal, but as KML says you have choices in how you handle things. Change your perspective and then be the change you want to see.

If you're an impatient woman, it's one thing you can work on because dealing with a MLCer definitely takea patients. Detaching helps with that.

It doesn't hurt to be that hottie whenever you see your H. Some mystery doesn't hurt either.