Thank you both for your swift replies.

Reading through the forum on this site has, no doubt, helped me tremendously. I was in a very low place, somewhere I never want to be again.

I am a lot clearer in the direction I need to head. I feel a lot better in myself, and although I do have times when I feel extremely sad, I can deal with it.

I do appreciate things are not going to change overnight, and I also know that however long this may take, that I will be a better, stronger person at the end of it. Regardless of whether my Marriage survives or not.

Even in this short period of time, I am finding out that I have friends around me who I can rely on, who will be there for me whatever the outcome.

Thanks again...