It really struck me today how deeply I've been in MY mess. I know I am half of the problem in my marriage, but what is easiest to blame my wife for her response to our problem.
Once again, my Dad's wisdom comes to mind. He always said, "when you can't change a situation, change how you respond to the situation." In other words work on your self.
Finding out about my wife's affair has actually helped me find calm. Something I havent felt in months. My wife is out of my hands. So now is time to control myself.
