Wow AS great job. I wish I could keep as cool as you. I was getting better until the whole vacation with OW. Then I lost it and am back to square one. I just read DB and DR probably a few weeks ago and I do good until a major event, like the vacation with OW. How long did it take you until you stopped slipping up?

I am very happy for you and agree with everything you say. My h seemed to regret his decision on the vacation before he even left. He talked about moving back and said that he and D20 had been discussing it. But, if he thinks he can walk right back after all this he's crazy, not that he would want to after my rant. But, I do think he saw how he hurt the kids. For some reason he didn't think this was a big deal. He felt like he deserved a vacation and she was the only one that could go, or so he said. But I also wasn't born yesterday.

Keep us posted on your progress. I hope to hear more good news from you soon! You always have a lot of good things to say so I hope you don't leave us if you get back together.


M 48 H 50
M 25 T 27
D 20,18,15
6/11 H filed
3/12 H dropped
4/12 H moved out