No, I don't think it's an idle threat. We've both put a lot of thought and discussion into it. However, whenever I try to get him to put some work into heading that way (like a separation agreement), even discussing the pros and cons of D, he refuses.
What do you suggest, KD? And I don't want something high-level that I can't apply.
I cooked and cleaned all day Wednesday so that we could host his children. I just spent 3 days visiting his family with him out of town because it's what he wanted. I was pleasant and engaging with them all. Last time I jumped in bed with him, I got accused of going too fast, so that's not in my immediate agenda.
