CV, there is a lot of back story to your email to your H and I understand your frustration and from where I sit, it comes through very clear in your email.
I would say that your H affirms your frustration in his email and further elaborates on his own frustration.
So I can only indicate that you and your H are very clear regarding the issues at hand.
I was going to suggest last night when I last posted, and decided to leave it out, that your H is not likely to wait the six years. As per his email, he affirmed my thoughts.
CV, while you may think you are the WAS, I don't think you have the luxury of six years. I have a feeling that within a year or two (or maybe less), your H is very likely to leave the M, for real.
CV, do you feel that your H's email is an idle threat? To me, it sounds like someone who has been putting serious thought into a more immediate dissolution of a M than I think you realize.
