MLC, affair, internet pictures, we're a mess

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What is the difference between a walk away wife and a mid life crisis? I can see why she'd walk away with all the trouble we've had and is just biding her time until she can make a clean get away, but she also seems to be textbook mid life crisis where everything is always my fault and our entire history has been rewritten.

Is it possible she could be both? She chose to make him her new best friend before she knew about my issues. She was bored with me (her words). Funnily enough instead of hanging out with me, she would hang out with him. So no new social parties or anything was happening. He was just meeting needs I was not and I get that. I just have no idea where she is now, mentally. Perhaps a little of both, WAW and MLC.