SS, just a guess, but it sounds more like he IS hiding something and that he is reacting/playing out something from his past. What he is hiding is anyone's guess. Mental issues?
I get what you're saying and I'm not discounting it. Really. Not discounting CV's perspective either. Regardless how things work out in your respective situations, I'm trying to point out how our actions influence others. I am in no way saying that's the cause, but it can have impact. In some situations more than others.
In some cases, there is nothing you can do about it. I get that. In your case, he walked away. There is not much more you can do about that except be the best you, you can be. From the sounds of it, it's more about him.
But in each of our cases, there is something to learn about us and how we react and how we are perceived. We don't always know how we are seen even if in some cases the others lens is skewed. In those cases, we could be perfect (not really perfect, but not what they say either) and it's not our actions that cause theirs per se. They are playing other tapes, so to speak.
Thanks for sharing and posting.
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
