Bug - Thanks for responding. I have stopped reacting and speaking to them since the other day. I just have been quietly blocking things so that I can cut them out. I never even acknowledged the FB crap. As far as the house I am going to call our county attorney tomorrow. Also to check what sort of things I will need in the case of a protection order. I think that is what is coming. She actually scares me more than him. The main problem for me is the idea that my kids are being put in the middle. They are my concern. I know and agree H and OW are not my problem. I honestly just want to be left alone. Go to work, take care of my kids, and do my own thing. That's all. Nothing else. No contact, No BS. No drama. I think just knowing that it wasn't in my head somehow brought some calmness. Not sure why. It's like - okay so this is it. Now it's obvious and now I am sort of detached. I think the FB incidents really showed me there is no getting along, there is no being nice, there can be no interaction. Sadly, my kids even understand all this. They also realized how damaging it was and as kids all of them know someone that FB has gotten out of control for - which is why they both came to me.
