AJ you just posted while I was posting that. Okay, maybe I shouldn't have used lying as an example. My H tried to say that I made him lie to me but I know that's not true. At least not to the extent he tries to say. He lies over the pettiest of things and I have seen/ heard him do it to pretty much all of our family and friends over the years. It could be as simple as saying he just woke up, when yet he had been up for hours. My question was probably not the best question to post in CVs thread.

CV, from the Emails it seems to me that your H is just as lost as you are as to how to repair your R. It seems like he does not think C will work and he just does not know what will. I think he does see it as urgent but has no idea how to begin to fix things.

M: 29, H: 31
D: 9
S: 8
T: 13 Y
M: 9 Y
ILYBIDKIILWY 12/09/2012
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