I agree, the depression part was scary. When H and ex-OW "broke up", it was one of the hardest times, with H so down, almost at rock bottom. Honestly, I had to hold on to my seat(literally) at times to keep me from running outside and just giving up everything. I wanted to be the WAW so bad. I dreamed of a life by myself, of not having to deal with this stupid MLC/EA stuff.
Thats where the GAL ing and detachment is helpful.
Take care and hang in there!
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go