DBing to save myself

[leopoldstotch]

Hello all,

Well something is up with my h. Our son fractured his arm skateboarding and had it cast today. At the ortho's office they took a pic of my son and me with his nice purple cast for the drs. wall. The office emailed the pic to my sons phone and mine. Well my son posted his on fb and within 15 minutes I got a text from my h about how sexy I looked in my boots. My mind went this guy is crazy but I didn't respond. A few minutes later I got a text that said. I like your boots they are hot. Again I didn't respond. He then text about our sons arm and asked questions about the cast so I did respond to those. I was very nice and got off phone first.

About an hour ago I got a text from him that said he would sure like a pic of something special . Since I am dbing to save myself here I know I should not have responded but I sent back " sure would you like a pic of our very special divorce papers". H replied no. I didn't respond so he text back " you know what I am talking about " I didn't respond again. So he calls and I don't answer. He calls 4 more times I finally pick up and as soon as I say hello. He says " oh you are probably recording this conversation so bye " he hung up and I haven't heard from him since.


What the do- do? I know in the past I haven't been the smartest with him but is he seriously trying to test the waters ? He is pretty cocky.

Ideas? Should I have handled it different? I know this will come up again probably later today bc I am basically ignoring him. What's the best way to handle this?

Thanks
Lisa

I would say that something is up with him all right. Your H has no respect for you Lisa and I would say he's a major cake eater. Seems to me that he thinks he can do whatever he pleases to do to you and you will willingly take him back. I have to say even though you should have ignored his texts I did find your answer about D papers amusing. Now if he brings up his texts to you you should tell him that you don't appreciate them. Show him a different behaviour that you aren't going to tolerate his childish antics.